You're stranded on a deserted island; which 3 things are you taking with you? I'm sure most of us would say something along the lines of a favourite pet, some form of entertainment, and maybe some matches if we're going for practicality. Now what if you were asked this same question, but in everyday life? Impossible, right? Well, maybe not so far fetched - at least that's how the minimalists see it.
What Is Minimalism?
I like to define minimalism as a way of cleansing myself of anything that doesn't serve me; that being my mind, my body, my health, my home, etc. The list goes on. And when I say the word serve, I simply mean - does it bring my life joy; does it provide purpose; does it better me in some way, shape, or form? Now minimalism doesn't just have to be in regards to "things." Sometimes cleansing ourselves of toxic relationships, bad habits, and certain lifestyle choices help us find greater joys than throwing out old T-shirts ever could.
The Minimalist Challenge
As some of you have already witnessed, this year I participated in November's Minimalist Challenge. This means that every day I got rid of a number of things, equivalent to the number on the calendar. For example, on November 10th, I got rid of 10 articles of clothing. Now this may not seem like much, but by the end of the month, I had freed myself of 465 things! And I figure what better time to cleanse my soul than right before the holidays... which we all know can be a tad overwhelming and a little too commercial.
My List of Goodbyes
How Did it Go?
I've found that as the days progressed, I became more and more willing to let go of my possessions. Things I stopped using or things I was keeping "just in case," no longer seemed necessary. If anything, they were simply clutter that I would rather not look at. I thought this challenge would get harder and harder as the number of things I was getting rid of got higher, but honestly I think it got easier. It's funny how the value of material items change over time. I think the same goes with mindset. Value isn't necessarily a dollar amount, I think it's more so a state of mind. I also realized that keeping something for "nostalgic purposes," is not a reason if those memories aren't pure. This has helped me let go of old gifts, letters, and tokens I've kept over the years as symbols of memories. By all means, keep your baby blanket tucked away somewhere, but maybe it's time to throw away that necklace your ex gave you years ago. Nostalgia is a trickster. Letting go is an art form.
A 30 day challenge is one thing, but how do we maintain this minimalist lifestyle? If you take the challenge, you'll most likely find that letting go of material things becomes habitual. I've realized that living in a clean and simple space is essential for my own piece of mind, which only fuels my desire to keep it that way. I'm less inclined to buy things I don't necessarily need, or things that I'll only use briefly. And when I do have a need for something, I ask myself how I can meet this need in the simplest, yet most efficient way. You'd be surprised what you can come up with. I've also found that I have a greater desire to give back. In the past month, I've donated a ridiculous amount of clothes, kitchen tools, and random odds and ends. And if it wasn't evident already, giving feels GREAT! It definitely puts things into perspective - literally AND figuratively.
For more information on minimalism, be sure to check out The Minimalists webpage & blog. You can also find them on Instagram for daily minimalist inspiration!