Expect Nothing, Experience Everything

Islands off the coast of Southwest Thailand

Islands off the coast of Southwest Thailand

We live in a time where expectation runs high in almost all that we do. Whether it’s planning a tropical getaway, looking for a restaurant in the city, or searching for your next Netflix binge, we want the best! And usually this means looking to those who have experienced what we want, and getting their opinions. We read reviews on trip advisor. Browse photos on Instagram. Check lists online of top recommended shows. I understand the desire to make the most of how you use your time and money. But what we may not recognize is this; we have developed a pattern of grading experience based on expectation. Expectations that are often a result of living in a culture where experiences are curated and embellished, simply for the sake of story telling. And much like this article, this information is based on personal bias. I’ll admit, I check all these boxes. I read hostel reviews searching for red flags, I look up restaurants on Instagram to catch a glimpse of menu items and atmosphere, and I ask for TV recommendations because it takes longer to pick a show on Netflix than it does to watch one. But what I’ve realized throughout these past few months of travelling is that my expectations can make or break my perception of the overall experience. 

Dunes seen from Fairy Steam in Mui Ne, Vietnam

Dunes seen from Fairy Steam in Mui Ne, Vietnam

When I first set out to travel Southeast Asia I thought I had a somewhat accurate idea of what my trip would be like. I researched a general route, watched videos online, looked up photos of beaches, heard stories from friends who had travelled before me, and had even acknowledged potential culture shock coming from a small rural town. I was prepared. And honestly, I was! Three months and not one situation I wasn’t able to navigate. Not to say that I managed all of this on my own. But let me make one thing very clear; being prepared is not the same thing as knowing what to expect. And herein lies one of the many lessons learned while travelling.

Locals working in rice fields in the countryside of Hoi An, Vietnam

Locals working in rice fields in the countryside of Hoi An, Vietnam

Up until now, I have lived my life in a consistent state of anticipation. Anticipating feelings and actions of others. Anticipating the food I’m going to be served at a restaurant (my fellow vegans/readers with any dietary restrictions will empathize with this one). Even something as simple as anticipating where a road will take me based on my GPS. Much like yourself, I have been collecting clues my entire life, learning the subtle and not so subtle flux of cause and effect. I’m nowhere near playing God, but for arguments sake, I’ve navigated life with mostly minor bumps and bruises. But what happens when the game changes and the rules don’t apply anymore? This is what it felt like, immersing myself into the vastly different culture of Vietnam. One where trains and buses run on a loose schedule, and restaurant hours and menus don’t exactly mimic their online status. A world where a foreigner like myself, can no longer predict outcomes. 

Abandoned water park in Hue, Vietnam

Abandoned water park in Hue, Vietnam

At this point you may be thinking something along the lines of; what did you expect? And to be honest, I really did anticipate some confusion. But what I wasn’t prepared for was the anxiety that came along with my previously conditioned Western lifestyle. Like I said, I have become so accustomed to my expectations aligning with my experiences that I never realized just how detrimental this was.  

I’m speaking from my own experience, so tread this one lightly. But what if we have become so reliant on knowing the outcome of a situation, that we are jeopardizing the good that comes with the element of surprise? We’re so quick to Google information, that we’ve started Googling experiences. And rightfully so! We (Westerners) live in a culture where being late to work is grounds for dismissal, and arriving to daycare by 5:05pm means getting charged for those 5 extra minutes. It only makes sense that we count on the coffee shop opening at 6am and not a minute later. But is it possible that this dependence has driven us to attempt to control even the most joyful experiences. We want to get it right.

“We’re so quick to Google information, that we’ve started Googling experiences”

Son Con, Phong Nha, Vietnam

Son Con, Phong Nha, Vietnam

Ultimately, I am learning to let go. And I believe that there is a lesson in this for us all. Because the experience isn’t in knowing or getting what you want. It’s hidden in the tricks life plays when it turns you on your heels. The experience is sharing a sunset with a stranger, or driving a motorbike for the first time. It’s ordering from a menu you don’t understand, and loving it anyway. Experience is pooping in a hole in the ground in a run down restaurant bathroom while a rooster walks past. Experience makes for good stories. Experience is a hug goodbye, and a surprise hello when you run into each other in neighboring cities. It’s laughing at grim circumstances, because at least you’re laughing together. Experience is crying at the side of a mountain because you finally made the decision to truly be there for yourself. And this, you cannot predict. There is no preparation for moments that test you. And no telling how new friends will make you feel. And even though these things can fill you right up, letting go long enough to feel it takes courage. Courage we can't find in Trip Advisor reviews or on Top 10 lists. So do yourself a favour and next time you consider doing your ‘research,’ don’t. 

Post Workout Methods to Recovery


Whether you're a seasoned vet, or looking to invest in your first gym membership, the following practices can (and probably should) be applied to anyone following a consistent workout regime. Given the extensive research surrounding physical activity and recovery, we are constantly flooded with new information regarding that of which we should and shouldn't do in order to maximize performance. Throughout my years as an athlete experimenting with a wide range of sports and training practices, I've had the opportunity to try various recovery techniques, ranging from muscle manipulation to nutrient supplementation to temperature therapy and more. What I've learned, at the ripe old age of 24, is that best practices for recovery can vary based on a multitude of factors. But when it comes down to it, your body is YOUR body. Recovery is highly individualized, and should be treated as such. The following are a few practices that have worked for myself, and I encourage you to try them on for yourself! 


Stretching should be a part of your pre and post workout routine if you're looking to optimize performance and recovery, as well as minimize chance of injury. Even though stretching is performed before and after physical activity, these two methods are distinctively different. Dynamic (with movement) stretching is optimal before exercise, and static (stagnant) stretching is more beneficial following exercise. Read more here! Personally, I like to incorporate hot yoga into my fitness routine to allow for deeper stretches and more flexible and fluid movements. 

Foam Rolling & Massage

Muscle & tissue manipulation following physical exertion can help to loosen connective tissue, increase flexibility, increase blood flow to muscle groups in need, and allow muscles to relax. This can all be accomplished post workout by "rolling out" the body with a hard cylinder or lacrosse ball. Click here for a step by step full body foam rolling guide. I aim to use a foam roller following each training session. 

Similarly to rolling, deep tissue massage has proven to act as a healing agent for muscle and joint pain. By applying a deeper more concentrated pressure to trouble areas, massage therapy aims to loosen connective tissue in order to again - reap the benefits of muscle and tissue manipulation. Given that massage therapy is a more costly option, try applying this strategy to your routine as a once-a-month maintenance tool. I'm a fan of Massage Addict, which has multiple locations, and offers a first time discounted rate, as well a membership rate! 

BCAA Consumption


Navigating nutrient supplement options can be intimidating to say the least. I've found that attempting to decipher false claims from products that really work comes down to doing your research, and experimenting. Personally, the only supplement I consume consistently in an effort to improve recovery, is a BCAA formula. BCAA's are Branch Chain Amino Acids, which aid specifically in muscle recovery. I use AMRAP BCAA Endurance Formula from GT Supplements . This specific product not only decreases muscle soreness and promotes lean muscle growth, but it also increases fat loss and muscle energy. I choose to consume this post workout, but given the energetic properties, consuming during a workout can be highly beneficial as well. And a bonus for you; this product is verified as vegan, has no added sugar, AND it tastes great. So why the heck not! 


This may sound obvious but if you're the type to be GO GO GO, then this one's for you (and me)! There are a few things to keep in mind when it comes to not only rest, but proper rest. After any workout, you'll want to give your muscles adequate rest in order to allow the muscles to repair themselves. Whether that means taking an entire rest day, an active rest day, or exercising different muscle groups, you'll want to ensure that the muscles you've just exhausted aren't being overworked to the point of injury. Another major key to muscle recovery is sleep! A proper nights sleep allows for the balance of hormones, improved mental health, and of course, muscle recovery. Click here for insight on improved sleep techniques. 


Proper Diet

When it comes to diet and nutrition, there are an overwhelming number of fad diets circling the media. My best advice is to get intimate with your body's needs. You have the option to calculate your daily recommended caloric intake to ensure that your body is getting enough calories for recovery. You can even choose to eat intuitively, by listening to your body, and eating when your body craves nutrients. It's easy to get caught up in restrictive diets, as they offer a challenge as well as structure. Personally, I choose moderation within a vegan diet, allowing treats here and there. More specifically regarding recovery, protein intake is crucial post workout. So if you are someone who follows a structured diet, be sure that this is something you're able to incorporate. 

Essential Oil Treatment

As natural remedies become fashionable in the health and wellness community, more and more athletes are choosing to explore the healing properties of essential oils. My favourite method for soothing stressed muscles, is applying a mixture of peppermint oil (cooling & anti-inflammatory agent), magnesium (I use a mineral spray), and castor oil (to mix and absorb into the skin). 

Listen to your body

I can give you recovery methods until I'm blue in the face (or in this case, until my fingers type a hole through my laptop) but when it comes down to it, you have to listen to what your body needs. Research may tell us that optimal time for muscle recovery is 48 hours, but if your body is still aching on day 3, maybe you need to look at some additional recovery practices. The key is to understand how to best allow your body to thrive. So be mindful, and focus on your needs as an athlete! 


Commitment to Recovery

As much as fostering a consistent workout routine takes commitment and focus, following through on a recovery routine is equally as important! Physical activity is a stressor that gets placed on the body, and must be counteracted with recovery practices in order to become beneficial. If you're considering picking up a new workout regime, or you intend on increasing your training intensity, I strongly encourage you to first create a recovery plan that works specifically for your body. Injuries caused by lack of recovery can bring your fitness goals to a stand still, which can ultimately become frustrating and defeating. See the bigger picture and treat your body right by making a commitment to recovery. 


A Never Ending Sense of Urgency

Something I've learned over the past 6 months of owning a business is that there will always be a sense of urgency in your work. Whether it's staying on top of trends, finding the best prices for supplies, or creating the best possible marketing for your customers. There will always be something lingering on that to do list. 

Never leave that till tomorrow which you can do today.
— Benjamin Franklin

Needless to say, Benjamin did work. The man got sh*t done. And there have been times when I've lived by these words. Not many feelings compare to a good day's work. I definitely take pride in my productivity, and I don't believe I would be where I am today if I didn't. That's great and all but, at what point do you have to say "Enough! It's time to kick off my shoes and watch some damn Netflix." Unfortunately, even physically finding time to relax doesn't always put the mind at ease. I've learned that mastering this tricky sense of "must do more," is not so black and white. And to be honest, I'm probably one of the worst people to ask if you're looking for guidance on the subject, because I myself have yet to figure this one out. The best I can do is write frantically and encourage myself to explore the topic further!

Multiple Personalities

I guess what I do know is that being a business owner is about balancing all the different roles necessary to maintain success. The tricky bit is realizing that as a start up, YOU are generally ALL of those roles wrapped up into one person. You invent the wheel, you manage the wheel, and you turn it yourself. And as soon as you learn how to turn the wheel, you want to find new ways to reinvent the wheel. It really doesn't stop. And typically, there's nothing wrong with that. All of those aspects are needed to run a successful business. But at what point do you "take a moment," to just be?

Adjust the Standard According to Reality

What I'm beginning to realize is that there is a big difference between short term and long term goals. Yes I was aware of this before, but I never really forced myself to adjust my standards based on these goals. I'm always going to dream at lengths. I think this may be a key attribute to being an entrepreneur. But giving myself a reality check every once in a while isn't a bad thing. And when I say reality check, I don't mean to discourage or undermine my aspirations. I simply mean to look at my goals and give myself a realistic time frame for what I wish to accomplish. With this in mind, I'm more inclined to appreciate where I am now in comparison to where I want to be in the future.

Running the Business So the Business Doesn't Run You

Frankly, I think this next point could be a whole blog post in itself. Obviously every small business owner runs a business, but I'm going to assume that 99% of those business owners allow their business to run their lives. I've heard horror stories of people waking up at 2am to prep their supply for market days, because they're either understaffed, have family commitments, or their "system" just doesn't work for them. And regardless of what the reason is, it's ALWAYS the latter. I often find that I'm guilty of falling into the same trap. It's hard to let go of the reins sometimes when you care so much about the standard of work that goes into your business. However, building a system that works for your lifestyle is essential to owning a successful business. And I can only aim to be aware of the importance of this, while I continue to learn what works and what doesn't!


Overcoming Failure with Confidence & Motivation

A question was posed on a popular Instagram account along the lines of - 'How do you overcome failure while maintaining confidence and motivation?' Rather than awaiting the interview to follow, I took a moment to reflect. Because as someone who loves to set goal after goal, shortcomings are not a stranger to my lifestyle. So how can I continue to navigate the ever-evolving world of entrepreneurship, despite those moments of defeat? I don't believe there is one magic answer to this question. We all deal with failure in our own way, which leads me to believe that coping becomes a personalized systematic mantra that we sing ourselves to sleep by. 

Uncover the Lesson

Naturally, we've all been a victim to failure. And if you're paying attention, hopefully you've learned a thing or two along the way. Often times, I think lessons are only really apparent in retrospect. Whether that be realizing you shouldn't have put the burner on so high after the smoke alarm goes off minutes later, or putting the pieces together after a bad breakup that maybe, just maybe, your friends were right and you probably shouldn't have 'wasted' those past 3 years. Like I said - retrospect. Unfortunately, some lessons in failure take a little longer to surface. 

Utilize the Lesson

Now if you burnt last night's dinner, are you still going to attempt cooking tonight? Probably. You have to eat and take out gets expensive. And I hope you're not that distraught over a simple mistake you made the night before. So why after a bad breakup, are we so hesitant to try again? As if love is destined to fail us once more. Why do we let some failures eat us alive, while we brush others off like they never took the slightest hit to our ego? When we fail, our sense of self can take a hit, and because everyone gathers a sense of self from different experiences and circumstances; what seems a failure to me may not even affect you, and visa versa. But rather than stew in the negativity that may arise when we let our ego take over, can we turn failure into something useful? Instead of acting on self deprecation, can you turn a lesson into a useful tool to hopefully learn a thing or two for next time. So much so, that we can turn coping, into thriving. 

I'm no expert, but I've yet to let yesterday's failures be reason enough to give up on my dreams. Why not? Because every failure is just a speed bump my friend. It'll slow you down, but it's no reason to stop moving forward. In saying this, some failures should probably be analyzed a little deeper than being treated with Halmark's finest cliche. Sometimes, we need a big defeat to show us that we're on the wrong track. And don't be fooled, changing your course of action doesn't necessarily mean quitting.

Mind the Ego


Ego; it can become your greatest driving force, or the dark shadow that will stand in your way. And realistically, the choice is yours. So, what feeds your sense of self? Is it your wealth of knowledge, your punctuality, your preparedness? Or is it your ability to make others laugh, your tenacity, your kindness? Either way, we are human, and we carry just about every trait under the sun to some extent, even if that means we're only a little aggressive, or a little manipulative. My point is, we derive our own perceived value from various traits, and depending on the make up of your sense of self, a lack of certain traits will basically attack your self worth. So how do we manage to map our way through failures, counteracting the damage done to our confidence? Well, if you can get to know yourself well enough, you'll learn what drives your ego, and you'll evidently learn how to dismiss that same ego, all in the same breath. 

Taking the time to learn about what makes me 'me,' has been a saving grace, to say the least. Looking at both my accomplishments, as well as putting the spotlight on those moments that I'm somewhat ashamed of, has made it a little more clear as to what my values are. And when I do experience failure, I try my best to consider where that failure came from. Was I aligned with my values at the time, or did I somehow lose track of those positive traits that make me 'me?' And through this, I've realized that sometimes that onus is on me, and sometimes it's out of my control. So when I fall short, it's up to me to make that promise to myself to be better tomorrow. And when circumstance is out of my control, can I find ways to overcome these obstacles by utilizing the skills and knowledge that I do have. By strengthening my sense of self, I'm able to find that confidence and motivation that's necessary when we experience failure. And failure is just that - an experience. Which is temporary, and filled with life lessons. So, what values make you, you? What failures have not compromised your sense of self, but have been a product of your own compromises? And what circumstances have made you question your value? How can you overcome those obstacles? Because failure is a natural and necessary component to life. How you tackle it, is the real test of character. 


The November Minimalist Challenge

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You're stranded on a deserted island; which 3 things are you taking with you? I'm sure most of us would say something along the lines of a favourite pet, some form of entertainment, and maybe some matches if we're going for practicality. Now what if you were asked this same question, but in everyday life? Impossible, right? Well, maybe not so far fetched - at least that's how the minimalists see it. 

What Is Minimalism?

I like to define minimalism as a way of cleansing myself of anything that doesn't serve me; that being my mind, my body, my health, my home, etc. The list goes on. And when I say the word serve, I simply mean - does it bring my life joy; does it provide purpose; does it better me in some way, shape, or form? Now minimalism doesn't just have to be in regards to "things." Sometimes cleansing ourselves of toxic relationships, bad habits, and certain lifestyle choices help us find greater joys than throwing out old T-shirts ever could. 

The Minimalist Challenge

As some of you have already witnessed, this year I participated in November's Minimalist Challenge. This means that every day I got rid of a number of things, equivalent to the number on the calendar. For example, on November 10th, I got rid of 10 articles of clothing. Now this may not seem like much, but by the end of the month, I had freed myself of 465 things! And I figure what better time to cleanse my soul than right before the holidays... which we all know can be a tad overwhelming and a little too commercial. 

My List of Goodbyes

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How Did it Go?

I've found that as the days progressed, I became more and more willing to let go of my possessions. Things I stopped using or things I was keeping "just in case," no longer seemed necessary. If anything, they were simply clutter that I would rather not look at. I thought this challenge would get harder and harder as the number of things I was getting rid of got higher, but honestly I think it got easier. It's funny how the value of material items change over time. I think the same goes with mindset. Value isn't necessarily a dollar amount, I think it's more so a state of mind. I also realized that keeping something for "nostalgic purposes," is not a reason if those memories aren't pure. This has helped me let go of old gifts, letters, and tokens I've kept over the years as symbols of memories. By all means, keep your baby blanket tucked away somewhere, but maybe it's time to throw away that necklace your ex gave you years ago. Nostalgia is a trickster. Letting go is an art form. 

What's Next?

A 30 day challenge is one thing, but how do we maintain this minimalist lifestyle? If you take the challenge, you'll most likely find that letting go of material things becomes habitual. I've realized that living in a clean and simple space is essential for my own piece of mind, which only fuels my desire to keep it that way. I'm less inclined to buy things I don't necessarily need, or things that I'll only use briefly. And when I do have a need for something, I ask myself how I can meet this need in the simplest, yet most efficient way. You'd be surprised what you can come up with. I've also found that I have a greater desire to give back. In the past month, I've donated a ridiculous amount of clothes, kitchen tools, and random odds and ends. And if it wasn't evident already, giving feels GREAT! It definitely puts things into perspective - literally AND figuratively.

For more information on minimalism, be sure to check out The Minimalists webpage & blog. You can also find them on Instagram for daily minimalist inspiration!


Conquering the Winter Blues

Winter. The word alone sends a shiver down my spine! There's no question; winters in Canada can be harsh. And I'm not just referring to heating up your car before the sun rises, feeling the ice cold tile floor under your toes, or having to maintain a healthy level of moisture on pretty much every party of your body. Unfortunately, these chilly dark days can prompt my nothing but familiar friend, "seasonal depression." As someone who lives a rather upbeat and positive life, seasonal depression is one pesky little monster who has definitely played a part in challenging my ability to tread water. In saying this, I know that I'm the furthest from alone on the subject, as many Canadians seem to suffer from the same yearly cycle. However, as a repetitive participant in the winter blues, over the years I've been lucky enough to learn from my body; finding ways to nurture and protect it from the season to the best of my ability. So, in hopes of shedding some light on my fellow soldiers - here's a brief summary on how I've learned to tackle the season. Keep in mind, I'm not a doctor - I'm simply sharing personal opinions. If you're struggling with mental health issues, it's usually best to seek professional medical attention, and work to form a plan/coping strategies that work best for you. 

1. Nighttime Routine

Getting the proper 7-9 hours of sleep each night is essential to healthy living. During rest, our  levels of cortisol and adrenaline decrease, allowing our bodies to repair and grow. Limiting sleep can put your body in starvation mode, which can cause irritability, increased stress, and weight gain. A main factor in maintaining proper sleeping patterns is a hormone known as melatonin. Shorter days means cutting back our sunshine hours, which effects our melatonin levels. In order to maintain a proper sleep schedule as the seasons change, it's important to send consistent nightly signals to trigger proper hormone activity. Simple things like dimming the lights, turning off the computer/tv, reading, and practicing aromatherapy an hour before bed, have done wonders for my sleep schedule. I've learned that keeping these signals as consistent as possible plays a important role, so I aim to start my nightly routine around 8-9pm. And on nights that I'm particularly irritable, taking a melatonin supplement half an hour before crawling into bed, has definitely done the trick!

2. Morning Exercise 

Another habit I've gotten into is scheduling my exercise for first thing in the morning. This way, I know I'm starting my day off right, which keeps my mood elevated throughout the better part of my day. I don't have to worry about getting in a workout after a long day of work, and I can save my evenings for "down time," which better prepares me for my nighttime routine. I'm not a coffee drinker, as I can get a little skittish, so I now add pre-workout to my morning routine. This way, I get a quick boost before exercising, as well as half a litre of water (mixed with pre-workout) first thing in the morning! A current favourite --> C4 Blue Razz.


3. Maintain Active Living 

Aside from my weekly gym routine, I try my best to stay somewhat active throughout the day. Luckily my job allows me to get up and move around as much as I like, but if you're working in a more sedentary workplace, it might be a good idea to take little walks around the office every half an hour, or go for a walk at lunch time. I've also tried to incorporate nightly walks if I'm feeling a little "cabin fever" coming on. A quick 30-45 minute stroll around my neighbourhood usually does the trick!

4. Supplement the Summer 

It's important to understand that as we lose daylight, our body's chemistry changes. Personally, I've learned specifically what my body needs to get through the season. I know that prescription medication isn't something I'm comfortable taking, so I've done my research in finding other options that compliment my diet. Most of this is trial and error, and highly dependent on your personal needs. Supplement-wise, I currently take a B-complex, iron, lysine, vitamin D, and I'm dabbling with ginseng. I would definitely recommend a vitamin D supplement to EVERYONE in the winter, because that's where a majority of us Canadians fall short. And if you're unsure of what your body needs, getting blood work done is a great place to start! 

5. Limit Recreational Drug/Alcohol Use

I'm not much of a drinker, so limiting alcohol use in the winter really wasn't a struggle for me. Alcohol is known as a depressant, which can throw our chemical/nutrient make-up off balance. Obviously everyone has their own tolerance level, so just be mindful of yours. As far as recreational drugs go, I've only ever dabbled with the green stuff. And as much as I found it to be a natural sleep aid and help with anxiety, it often left me feeling lethargic, unmotivated, and don't get me started on the munchies! Anyway, I aimed to go weed free for a month, and I've now surpassed my goal, which I'm proud to say is an ongoing thing. I'm actually a little indifferent to marijuana use, but personally I don't believe that it fits into my lifestyle at the moment. And by cutting it out, I've found new ways to improve my sleeping patterns, diet, and cope with my anxieties. Clearly cannabis use is a personal choice, but it's always a good idea to take a look at your "habits" and investigate whether your choices are serving you in a positive way. 

6. Maintaining Proper Health During Flu Outbreaks

Hopefully I don't need to remind you to take standard hygienic precautions, such as washing your hands regularly or coughing into your arm rather than your hands. But given the heightened normalcy of sickness during the season, I'll shed some light on some of my own practices. Something I've gotten in the habit of is cleaning the equipment I use at the gym before AND after use. Before is a personal preference, and after of course is a courtesy. Washing your hands after your workout is another great practice, as we know that exercise can briefly lower the immune system. Recently I've started using a diffuser to aid some breathing problems, and after researching various essential oils, I've found that eucalyptus oil can play a part in fighting off the common cold/flu. I like to set the diffuser for a few hours as I'm falling asleep - a practice I use about 5 times a week. Along with the essential oils, I started using natural immunity boosting agents from Saje Natural Wellness. Here is a list of the products I'm currently using on a regular basis:


I'm a big advocate for natural remedies - I wouldn't be sharing these products with you if I wasn't. Clearly somebody hasn't been endorsed yet (cough cough). And my last little tidbit of information; proper nutrition people! It works wonders! When we fuel our bodies with all them nutrients, we give our immune system the opportunity to build and repair before things go too far south.

So all in all, treat your body right! Give yourself the love and care you deserve, because the simple act of doing so, can have an extraordinary impact on your mental health. Again, mental health is individualized. Different strategies work for different people, so work toward becoming mindful of your needs. Maintaining good mental health is an ongoing process, so be patient with yourself.


Diary of an Entrepreneur: Ch. 10

Chapter 10: Balanced in Business

I'm writing this on a Monday afternoon, and in an effort to be as transparent as possible, I would just like to point out how tired I am. Not to make excuses for the inevitable mess of words that will most likely follow this intro, but man I could use a nap... or a brief coma (either one should do the trick). "Amber, just stop complaining and make time for some extra Z's!" Alright, can you not lecture me when I'm only partially conscious? Anyway...

I will tell you, today was like most mornings. I woke up, scanning my arm over my bed, searching for my phone so that I could turn off that deathly alarm clock. And in those brief awakening moments, I decided at which level of zombie I would be functioning at today. This of course is always followed by a promise to myself that I will go to bed early. But hey, guess how often I follow through on this nagging issue.... ALMOST NEVER. 

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Something I've learned as a small business owner - you will be the most accountable for your actions that you've ever been. Mind you, this is more so a personal realization. I can only imagine how accountable I would be as a mother, doctor, professional apologizer (this is a real job, I looked it up). Anyway, my point is, with accountability comes a responsibility to not only your business, but to your self as well. And for someone who has struggled with mental illness in the past, finding my balance in business has been something that I've had to be extremely mindful of. 

In my first month/month and a half of working the shop, I was ultimately limited in all other areas of my life. My stress level went up, my social life disappeared, my "me time" was spent either at home or at the shop - both of which I would be stewing over business plans. I had begun to neglect so many parts of what made me the well-rounded individual I have always set out to be. Now this was not an oversight - I was well aware of my actions. One thing I can proudly say about this experience is that I have learned the significance of temporary feelings, stressors, circumstances, etc. Throughout those first (very stressful) weeks, I had to be my own voice of reason, constantly reminding myself that I would find a work routine that would work for me. And you know what, that's exactly what I did. Did I have a few slips along the way? Of course. Did I doubt myself once or twice? Yes, only natural. But reminding myself that the major lifestyle change I made was going to take time to adjust to, was a major tool in getting me through a stressful period. 

It wasn't until our third month in business that I decided to start adjusting my priorities. I think I can recall having a total of 2 days off in July. Now I'm not complaining, because I fully understand the commitment I have made, and I want to be their for all of our "first steps," but heck I'm human and it was time for a reality check. It was time to make time for myself! Sometimes this meant simple things like going home for lunch and eating outside in my backyard. And sometimes this meant leaving town for 2 days for a "vacation." Both of which; very necessary! Finishing up with August, and I've banked 6 days off - a small change, but a world of a difference. I've definitely developed a much better understanding of the phrase "work hard, play hard." I think I've agreed to more social events in the past month than I ever would have. I am practically the Yes Man. But hey, in all seriousness, entrepreneurship leaves you with limitless opportunities, which can create a turmoil of unstoppable excitement. Which is why it's so important to recognize when it's time to reevaluate your priorities. I'm constantly learning how to do this. How and what I want to balance in my life. It's ultimately both a difficult and entertaining process. Especially when I'm so tired that I fall asleep while the blenders are running. Lucky for me I have nothing but time and a desire to make this work! And, I'd love to share with you in more detail as we progress. Thanks for keeping up! - This girl is ready for bed. Amber out. 


Diary of an Entrepreneur: Ch. 9

From our family to yours!

From our family to yours!

Chapter 9: Thriving in Your Community

Ever since we opened the smoothie bar, the concept of "community" has been a constant topic of conversation! And I say "we," because even though I have quite literally run myself ragged at times during this start up, it truly does take a village! And for those of you who don't know me personally, I grew up in Georgetown (home of our vegan love child - My Fit Little Foodie), where I was a fairly active member in the community up until I left for university in 2012 (give or take?). Spending 5 years away from home made it slightly difficult to return to Georgetown as an equally involved member of society, especially while working a full time job in Mississauga. And after a year and a half, I was beginning to feel a slight sense of resentment towards my quaint little town. Now, four months later and I'm telling an entirely different story. And this, I believe, is because of the power of community. 

"Sorry, I Didn't Catch Your Name?"

I really believe this sentence has made a major contribution to my business's growth as a start up. It is unbelievable how much of a difference learning someone's name, and one or two things about them makes in the long run. Establishing a regular cliental can be extremely vital for businesses that are just starting out. And for this, we value each and every one of our customers, because they are the reason we are able to do what we do! I can honestly say there are days when almost every individual who walks through our door gets greeted by name. And if they don't, they'll hear "sorry, I didn't catch your name" as we're exchanging our goodbyes. A quick handshake, and they're on their way. Establishing your business comes hand in hand with establishing yourself, as well as a personal relationship with the person in front of you. You'd be surprised how easy it is to make your customers smile! 

Proud, Protective, & Pleased 

If you live in a small town like Georgetown, you know the significance of this next bit. Bite size communities take pride in their homes, small businesses, greenery, etc. In a place this small, everywhere is home, and we like to treat it that way! When My Fit Little Foodie does well, it acts as a reflection of the community, and their loyalty to local success - and man are they loyal! When we share our success with our customers, they can feel a sense of pride for being a large part of that success. And a successful customer is a pleased customer! Creating that symbiotic relationship between guest and employee is the ultimate goal!

A Special Thank You

Now coming up on 2 months of serving smoothies to Georgetown's finest, I've had the chance to really sit back and reflect on the experience thus far. And I can honestly say, I'm thrilled! The positive feedback we've received from the community has been extremely heartwarming, and for that I cannot thank you enough! We are definitely looking forward to our future in Georgetown, as we grow, learn, and expand on everything we have to offer! To everyone who has shown their support, whether that be words of encouragement, your patronage, or spreading the good word of My Fit Little Foodie, this one goes out to you! So, THANK YOU!